Monday, September 30, 2013

What Could Have been..

There is never an easy path to what you would want to achieve in life... There are many thorns on the way, some are imposed by a domino effect some are much worst in reaction where the outcome is a web effect.

See, change is part of a NORM in life, yet we see distinction on how to measure change and evaluate this from the mechanical side or organizational stand point... We all heard "If its not broken do not fix it..."but I have also learned that if there is a better way to obtain the same results, the system is as good as broken" At the end change can become expressed as a fear, and FEAR my friend can stops most or drive a few.

As Mr. Mitt in his many motivational video speeches once said "Fear is self-imposed, fear will create you or destroy you", while you may be afraid of change, fear knows that behind every person, there is a greater one. "Fear is Self-imposed; meaning it does not exist, you create; therefore you can also destroy it, is an intangible source that can be held and toss away"

Once you face it you will realize that it was not a big deal... the change could be painful, but once you face it, your opportunities are endless, you start to wonder why you have been running away from it, it was so small, you have tasted it and you are amazed that it fulfills you.

Not only you faced the change but you also took the approach of beating fear. But what about when you experience defeat, when the outcome it was not as expected, that your planned and follow your plan and executed to your best.. what happens then? The real question is, Are you still alive from such experience? See, is only a matter of accepting defeat, you still can think, can act and re-evaluate your process, then go at it again, and again, and again, you have been shown worthy of tasting what was like to face your most dark side of all, then you'll master and become the best there is, then you will embrace and will welcome change.

Fear will come back to you, but in different form, in the form of courage. What else am I capable of, what else I can face, what else can I overcome, why did I had to run from it...?

At the end there is a simple question to embrace and truly answer: Would you face the fear of a change, or you would wonder, what could had been if I did?

Stay focus, be great... God Bless

Robert Gamez

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