Friday, February 14, 2014

A Gentleman..

I will describe the statue of a man defined by my standards. A man should be interested in a substantive and intellectually topics that can only make him better in all areas:Spiritual, Mind and Body. Yet that said, a man, need to become nonetheless compassionate and emotionally balanced, chivalry has to become a men part of code and conduct, the world does not need cold hart individuals. Although it may seem in-congruent with masculinity. An interested man should be autonomous, quite content with focusing on his current projects independently. 


A man, ambitious and goal oriented must never quite be satisfied with the status QUO, He must establish personal goals and strive the highest to achieve them. Find pleasure in accomplishing simple things or task to increase his motive in life, and learn how to choose his battles. 


An independent thinker and a nonconformist, avoiding trendy habits. Have a passion for life; and start each day with a renewed optimism and an eagerness to experience the day to it's fullest. All things must be done with conviction- and find it not boorish to elaborate but well conveyed. Any current goals and career and responsibilities must keep him busy throughout most of the year, but enjoy taking trips on long weekends and at some point in each year. 


To suggest that a man should be zealous about fitness would be to state the obvious. Isn't that true about most people that desire to be in the best shape of their life, it is a lifestyle that a man / a woman should embrace, as a lifestyle and not a chore. A man should be genuine and non-superficial, not inclined to engage in small talk (who, what, and where....) - yawn. 

A man's health in mind and fitness must be important, but most importantly his values and spirituality with the one above, in fact, all these areas must be not be part of a man chore, but rather a life style that embraces creativity, wisdom and humbleness. Besides engaging in daily exercise, he must find the time to like and spend time nourishing his brain in education and books.


He must find pleasure to seek these things and cherish with the one he chooses to be with. Yet, be very devoted and attentive to a special woman in a lifetime - fully embracing the time when spend together. Perhaps a curious woman, a woman that can have a non- trivial mental rapport, (to seek [ephemeral] relationships), but never forgetting that is part of an attraction. 


Physical attraction is important, however, the veneer of physical appearance ultimately should become less appealing for men, as the beauty becomes a quality of mind and substance in a woman. Man should find a women who is not afraid to look fit and are cerebral, that is and can be especially alluring. The woman a man of thus statue should be compatible with filling in space void not through conspicuous consumption, but instead, by meaningful activities and experiences.


If you come to know a man of such statue, you will realize that he will be very loyal, dependable, and trustworthy. If you prefer masculine men who can engage in intelligent conversation you might find it appealing with a stamp of a good man.Good luck and God bless...
Robert Gamez

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