What Could Have been..

There is never an easy path to what you would want to achieve in life... There are many thorns on the way, some are imposed by a domino effect some are much worst in reaction where the outcome is a web effect.

See, change is part of a NORM in life, yet we see distinction on how to measure change and evaluate this from the mechanical side or organizational stand point... We all heard "If its not broken do not fix it..."but I have also learned that if there is a better way to obtain the same results, the system is as good as broken" At the end change can become expressed as a fear, and FEAR my friend can stops most or drive a few.

As Mr. Mitt in his many motivational video speeches once said "Fear is self-imposed, fear will create you or destroy you", while you may be afraid of change, fear knows that behind every person, there is a greater one. "Fear is Self-imposed; meaning it does not exist, you create; therefore you can also destroy it, is an intangible source that can be held and toss away"

Once you face it you will realize that it was not a big deal... the change could be painful, but once you face it, your opportunities are endless, you start to wonder why you have been running away from it, it was so small, you have tasted it and you are amazed that it fulfills you.

Not only you faced the change but you also took the approach of beating fear. But what about when you experience defeat, when the outcome it was not as expected, that your planned and follow your plan and executed to your best.. what happens then? The real question is, Are you still alive from such experience? See, is only a matter of accepting defeat, you still can think, can act and re-evaluate your process, then go at it again, and again, and again, you have been shown worthy of tasting what was like to face your most dark side of all, then you'll master and become the best there is, then you will embrace and will welcome change.

Fear will come back to you, but in different form, in the form of courage. What else am I capable of, what else I can face, what else can I overcome, why did I had to run from it...?

At the end there is a simple question to embrace and truly answer: Would you face the fear of a change, or you would wonder, what could had been if I did?

Stay focus, be great... God Bless

Robert Gamez

Reflection of You?

First things first… Thank you for stopping by and taking time to reading this profile in your busy day. Remember that the world is ours... we can take it, but leave some fun for the rest of the planet..!

Would you reflect the following personality an ultra low maintenance, passionate, energetic, forward thinking, self aware, and actualization and active/athletic person who loves to explore new places, learn new things, and experience new adventures. Someone that will almost anything once... Yet, still frightened by the wonders of life at the same time still creating your own destiny… Very conscientious and fully aware of those around you such as family, friendship, love and fun may be the only things worth having. Contented in the fact that open mindedness and fearlessness takes precedence over a status Quo and understands the misleading notion of the perfect match or perfect scenario allows the sensitivity to know that you have your own things to learn to become the best you want to be... While this is for most... is it descriptive enough to say that what you are reading is imposed based on the idea of someone else...

Maybe, but maybe this is something that you may question within wanting to reflect most but you may add to this or remove some for your own benefit... at the end it aids to narrate some of your desires to be who you would want to be... Someone that reflects those positive instants or adopt such behaviour...

Yea the world is a wonderful place and life is an exciting journey to fully understand self-actualization in life. being open-minded leading to great outcomes and giving more is always better than taking, that listening powers awareness and laughing everyday is still the best spiritual medicine for your soul; in addition, you love to see people smile and laugh...

But you must ask this one question when looking in the mirror... Is this someone you would want to be or this is someone that you would like to reflect in life...? If, so what is stopping you from being that person, the only one that stops you is you, at the end we do not find ourselves we make ourselves, who would you want to be today is the reflection of tomorrow, the only opportunity you have is now, now or never, now is the difference between what was a few seconds ago and what if... because IF never got to go anywhere... think about it..!

Foward by a Friend...!

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

Be impeccable with your Word
Speak with integrity, Say only what you mean.. Avoid using the work to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Don't take anything personally 
Nothing others so is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own realty. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering

Don't make assumptions 
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Always do your best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment:
it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self abuse, and regret.

Facing your Character

A man character and demeanor must at times be hard as the steel.... Be willing to face up to any outcome and rise to the occasion to be balanced and accept the truth about himself... The things he likes, excluding the virtues and values of what makes him a man, must be put on pause until compromise is accepted/encountered, for the woman he loves , but he must accept including refusing to compromise when compromise is wrong. Most importantly he must also be compassionate and kind; using physical strength, will not breach the armor of a woman's rancor or resentment like tenderness and kindness. 

As soon as the man rises up to be the man he is; not by conquering others, but to conquer him self is the true to his calling and accepting and standing toe to toe facing his flaws and fears... which will not be part of him no more. It is when and only when a real women will be revealed; it will reflect and will always be relieved to be grateful and thankful when men are willing to be men.

Finding yourself today when reevaluating your persona is a fools pathway, making yourself in the myths of your own judgment and assessment is a wise man pathway which will lead to greatness... 

Set_Backs...!

When you experience setbacks in life's outcome... remember that is only temporary..! You will be hurt, it will probably put you down you will probably cry/set you back so far that you can even see the edge of the next turn... But you must remember that this road is a simple straight road, we deviate and take tuns and get off track.

Just make sure you use the 80, 20 rule... Complain 20% and seek 80% of strength to get up and visualize your success, until even thinking about 20% of the time seems too tiring to complain, then you will find giving it all 100% to your success. The way you must see it, is just a pause before the grand finale.. You have MASTER your pain..,!

You have lived your life through the HURT - Who said that life was easy...! You are used to it, remember...! Thing about it..!, then you will realize that you have discipline yourself to succeed because you are still alive, you have another chance in life to proof of what you are made of, again, again and again... an opportunity to lean from your mistakes to take the good and leave back the useful, is time to adopt and change new ways...! To make yourself not find yourself...

See we all have a PHD and that is or called LIFE..! Be grateful and thank God for your life and for giving you the strength to be here now, reading this and thinking about an other opportunity to be humble bow your head and charge through walls.! Now get up and smile...!

There are likes and loves...!

Do not come to me with sermons and praise, I do not need them at this time, I just need appreciation and support...! Do not pretend to say something of what I already know.

I will invite you to invite me to do what ever is it you desire or maybe what I did not had the courage to ask.... I invite you so we can both refrain from criticisms and put this nonsense aside, I do not need to be reminded of my faults, I already know them well... I know you miss me and I miss you too, SSSSSHHH.... we will keep quiet and pretend that we're both strong.

There are love stories in your life time which hurt you when its present and hurt you as well when they leave you... there is also love without the pride, this makes you lose your dignity.... Your love helped me to die slowly and death taught me to survive and live fast for love. It is from a fool perspective to live today to love tomorrow, you live only once...! 

I keep hearing to not fix what is not broken, but if it could be better is as good as broken... yet I keep thinking that is because nobody here is ready for a change becasue most of the time change is forced... When love is well misused, it deserves to be set free to rest, but how would you know the the difference, it is unknown..

Please, please do not ask me to tell you what you already know,  I do not think you would want to hear what I know... You know the answers to every question of yours, unfortunately you hold the keys and if you need me to say something, well............. I already forgot.

Charge your Fears....!

Forget about the competing with others, forget about the daily struggles, each day has its own opportunity and challenges to make the best of it... That being said the only thing you can control each morning and moment is YOU ... The competition is with you, you must conquer YOU and give it your best, be better than yesterday, beat your own time, your own achievements, your own weakness...! Face your fear eye to eye, you skin may chill, you may doubt your capabilities, but know one thing, what does not kill you makes you stronger...

Robert G

Impossible only means that I'M-Possible to do whatever is that I desire and its only me that sets boundaries to limit myself or brake through... Limits / boundaries are made to be breached understanding its consequences and by doing so the only objective remains which is to conquer yourself then you can conquer all.